I really do believe this! It’s really annoying when couples break up, then SO THEY DON’T HAVE TO LET GO, they claim they are still friends! And they claim to be close friends!! WTF its BS and we all know it. See, one of the two that were in the relationship isn’t ready to “Let go”. So they hold onto what they can, and that’s a “We’re Buddies” Friendship. Friendship isn’t really all that possible after breakups! If you’ve been together for 4 years and broke up because you lost that spark, then props to you for being honest, move on and find someone you do have a spark with. Stay friends, maybe talk once in a while, keep in-touch, and see how your EX is doing! BUT if you’ve been going out for less than a year, and weren’t FRIENDS first, your NOT friends after! ESPECIALLY if you didn’t break up on good terms. If things ended because of the one of the common breakup reasons, such as another man/woman, Things should be over! DONE!
If you were the cheater, YOU’VE MADE YOUR BED, NOW YOU’VE GOT TO LAY IN IT. If you’re the cheated, you’ve been cheated on, you should be mad, you can hate. BUT to sit around and be sad and think that you’ve lost the best thing ever IS WRONG. It makes me so mad to think about this. You should hate that person!
If this person was “the one” then they would be your ONE, your ONE and ONLY. And you in turn would be their ONE AND ONLY! If they cheated on you, then you’re NOT their ONE AND ONLY! Get that through your head! If that person is dating someone else already, that may be your second clue that they aren’t the one for you! They don’t love you in the way that you want them to! So find someone that does!
And HONESTLY…IF someone cheats on you, and you find out, stick to your word (what ever it may be). If you give that someone a second chance, then that’s fine, everyone makes mistakes. BUT if you get cheated on, find out, and decide to give them another chance, then give them ONE more chance. NOT 3 or 4….ONE!!! If they cheat again, they are a cheater!! Cheaters are NO good! DO NOT let this man/woman WALK ALL OVER YOU! Your friends and family will tell you that this person is no good for you, they are RIGHT!! It’s so sad when people claim that LOVE IS BLIND, NO you’re lonely, you aren’t willing to let go. PLAIN AND SIMPLE! Don’t use love as an excuse to not let go. And EVEN MORE importantly DON’T say you love someone if you don’t! The word LOVE is supposed to be for people that are special to you! Not people that you think need to hear it or to someone that you have gotten bored of saying “I miss you” to!!
Alright…I’m done for today. Thanks for listening to my rant. If you have an opinion, agree or disagree, let me know!
posted by Beezaleez @ 8/08/2005 09:17:00 AM
1 Comments:
Love is a chemical imbalance. If you go to the doctor you can get some pills to fix that. Don't worry its not a serious problem but you will have to be on meds the rest of your life. I know its bad but hey its better than dying right?
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